Ok... so you are in love... your life is absolutely rocketing....so is your professional, emotional, social and of course...sexual life. You are on the top of the world but enjoying all this with the person you love. And suddenly in this abode of heaven.... enters a little name..( i will call her a bitch.. you can call her anything you want :)). You know in most of the cases it is your partener's "collegue", your best friend, your partener's best friend's fiancee or someone who has dropped from the angelic world. You are so sure about your partener.....bbbbbbutt....you are not so sure about her. hmmmmmmm.... so what to do..????
That's a realllyyy big question. some will say.... trash her...squash her.... just ask her to stay away.... your womanly instinct is screaming like hell..your heart is squeezing itself harder and harder to shout in your brain that she is aiming to snatch away the biggest happiness of your life. you know .. some older and wise woman told me that if you really love someone you become so selfish that you wont let her or him go. Its impossible to live your life without them. i know she was talking a crude truth because she lost her beloved at an early age, I really dont believe in that crap that if you love someone you leave him free.... bull shi**. i believe the other way round .... i know i cant keep a tab on my partner .... where he goes... where he talks or chats... the point is he is mine emotionally. You know... there comes a time in your life when your possessiveness goes beyond that physical thing... it is more of an emotional possessiveness. So if the bitch wants to be physical.. what would she get... a moment's orgasimic happiness.... but after a time or two times or three times... she will definitely get emotional... so if she gets the emotional share.....NOOOOO
Thats not right. So the emotional part in infidelity is the worst thing that cant be handled... because NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD CAN SHARE HER MAN EMOTIONALLY WITH THE OTHER WOMAN.
So, rather than showing the bravery and the courage, look for the little signs in the early stage. they are:
these are general... can happen or can not happen... but you never know... its better to be prepared than sorry. It is not a professional advice but some of us have experienced these things .. so i have put them collectively. so go and save your partners from getting bitten by the bitches..... but remember to show faith in your darling(even if you dont have) ... because if they are not guilty( lets assume for a while).. then the nagging can really push them towards the dreaded consequences.... because if a man settles down ... and that too a man who had a variety to choose from... its actually like the saying: "EVEN THE WILDEST RAKE SETTLES DOWN". So, dont push him hard. And one more thing... ego never comes in the way of love... stop him to fall prey into some other hands... because we housewives sometimes tend to take them for granted... for what they are ... as they are so close to us that we forgot their qualities and tend to forget that it is also necessary for us to become a friend and a lover sometimes. i am not demeaning here any of the gender here. i am just trying to say that it is so easy to love,, but we tend to make it complicated. And that give a chance to the predators who are ready to grab our diamonds and happiness.
so stay happy, alert and appreciate what life has given to you... god bless.. bye.
That's a realllyyy big question. some will say.... trash her...squash her.... just ask her to stay away.... your womanly instinct is screaming like hell..your heart is squeezing itself harder and harder to shout in your brain that she is aiming to snatch away the biggest happiness of your life. you know .. some older and wise woman told me that if you really love someone you become so selfish that you wont let her or him go. Its impossible to live your life without them. i know she was talking a crude truth because she lost her beloved at an early age, I really dont believe in that crap that if you love someone you leave him free.... bull shi**. i believe the other way round .... i know i cant keep a tab on my partner .... where he goes... where he talks or chats... the point is he is mine emotionally. You know... there comes a time in your life when your possessiveness goes beyond that physical thing... it is more of an emotional possessiveness. So if the bitch wants to be physical.. what would she get... a moment's orgasimic happiness.... but after a time or two times or three times... she will definitely get emotional... so if she gets the emotional share.....NOOOOO
Thats not right. So the emotional part in infidelity is the worst thing that cant be handled... because NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD CAN SHARE HER MAN EMOTIONALLY WITH THE OTHER WOMAN.
So, rather than showing the bravery and the courage, look for the little signs in the early stage. they are:
- undue tantrums of the bitches in front of your partner to get attentions.
- a sudden traffic jam where the only lifesaver for the bitch is your partner.
- the sudden super advisor on love issues appears to be none other but your partner.
- the bitches start sudden over .praising of your partners.
- when they call your partner and hide it from her's to seek an emotional advice on the problems between her partner and herself.
- when she starts asking questions like " what will happen if u come to know that i am having an affair with your partener" and that too in a funny way as nothing has really happened.
- when they try to invade your privacy more than they ought to.
- when they always seek an opportunity to fish for complements about their appearance and looks when they get ready.
these are general... can happen or can not happen... but you never know... its better to be prepared than sorry. It is not a professional advice but some of us have experienced these things .. so i have put them collectively. so go and save your partners from getting bitten by the bitches..... but remember to show faith in your darling(even if you dont have) ... because if they are not guilty( lets assume for a while).. then the nagging can really push them towards the dreaded consequences.... because if a man settles down ... and that too a man who had a variety to choose from... its actually like the saying: "EVEN THE WILDEST RAKE SETTLES DOWN". So, dont push him hard. And one more thing... ego never comes in the way of love... stop him to fall prey into some other hands... because we housewives sometimes tend to take them for granted... for what they are ... as they are so close to us that we forgot their qualities and tend to forget that it is also necessary for us to become a friend and a lover sometimes. i am not demeaning here any of the gender here. i am just trying to say that it is so easy to love,, but we tend to make it complicated. And that give a chance to the predators who are ready to grab our diamonds and happiness.
so stay happy, alert and appreciate what life has given to you... god bless.. bye.
